
In light of my previous post, this is almost comical.
My daughter offered to make dessert - when anyone offers dessert AND wants to make it, I am all for it! I showed her the box which contained all the ingredients and she read the directions; I went off to do the myriad of things on my to-do list. I couldn't wait to eat the lemon bars.
After a short while, she emerged from the kitchen with a package in hand.
"Is this the crust?"
I look up briefly from my work, quickly examined the package and confirmed that it was the crust. Off she went and I went back to what I was doing.
"This doesn't look right!"
Came the next comment from the kitchen. The lemon bars came out of the oven and indeed didn't look quite right. I decided to taste it. Okay it REALLY didn't taste right! Then it occurred to me....
"when you mixed the topping did it smell really lemony?"
"no"
In my inattention I gave her the wrong advice. I assumed the package was the crust - it was not. Our lemon bars were made upside down with backwards instructions. The results were awful!
Fortunately, it was only lemon bars. It made me realize that when my kids ask me a question I need to focus on what they are saying, understand what they are asking, and pay attention to the details so I can give an informed and accurate response.